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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 21:59:34 GMT -6
She's regressing into her immature side. Damn, all that progress. We're talking now, but I don't know where it will lead. Its alright man, that kind of immaturity takes years to dissipate. Just be confident and assertive as best you can. Dont let her give you shit you dont deserve. And good luck with the talking dude, I hope you come to a concrete outcome sooner than later I've gotten a "I don't know what I want" and "I'm not in the right mental state to be asked that." |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 22:18:04 GMT -6
Huh. There's not often I'm wrong, but I was ooooooh so wrong.
EDIT: Things are better; she opened up a LOT. Spilled the beans on what's really going on and I can see I was at fault a bit. Not in a "I started all her problems" way, but I added on to her stress.
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Post by Agemoi on May 7, 2014 22:53:34 GMT -6
Thats good to hear dude. That was my first instinct that if she was already stressed then it couldve just pushed the wrong buttons. Congrats though! Good to hear that progress has been made!  |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 22:57:08 GMT -6
Oh my God! You guys have to watch this. If you can do it without laughing props to you.
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 22:57:36 GMT -6
Thats good to hear dude. That was my first instinct that if she was already stressed then it couldve just pushed the wrong buttons. Congrats though! Good to hear that progress has been made! Yeah, it was this whole almost failing school thing. I knew it was stressing her, but it's actually doing a lot worse. Depression, the whole thing. Her teachers won't help her because of the principal, so she's stuck trying to pass but she doesn't know if she can and everyone is pushing her to do it, so there's tons of stress. |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 23:04:18 GMT -6
Thats good to hear dude. That was my first instinct that if she was already stressed then it couldve just pushed the wrong buttons. Congrats though! Good to hear that progress has been made! Yeah, it was this whole almost failing school thing. I knew it was stressing her, but it's actually doing a lot worse. Depression, the whole thing. Her teachers won't help her because of the principal, so she's stuck trying to pass but she doesn't know if she can and everyone is pushing her to do it, so there's tons of stress. Wait is she in highschool? I'm not that up to date with young people but were you planning on asking her to move in right away? Otherwise my advice would be for her to move if after she graduates. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 23:06:45 GMT -6
Yeah, it was this whole almost failing school thing. I knew it was stressing her, but it's actually doing a lot worse. Depression, the whole thing. Her teachers won't help her because of the principal, so she's stuck trying to pass but she doesn't know if she can and everyone is pushing her to do it, so there's tons of stress. Wait is she in highschool? I'm not that up to date with young people but were you planning on asking her to move in right away? Otherwise my advice would be for her to move if after she graduates. No, not anytime soon. Just a vague after-college plan. Because she wants to room with her friend during college. |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 23:09:31 GMT -6
Wait is she in highschool? I'm not that up to date with young people but were you planning on asking her to move in right away? Otherwise my advice would be for her to move if after she graduates. No, not anytime soon. Just a vague after-college plan. Because she wants to room with her friend during college. Dude... Uh Oh. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 23:10:44 GMT -6
No, not anytime soon. Just a vague after-college plan. Because she wants to room with her friend during college. Dude... Uh Oh. The friend is a girl and her best friend. |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 23:13:31 GMT -6
The friend is a girl and her best friend. Still though, you should really find an answer before she goes to college. Remember college lasts 4 years man. Well usually, it could be less or more depending on the person. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 23:16:03 GMT -6
The friend is a girl and her best friend. Still though, you should really find an answer before she goes to college. Remember college lasts 4 years man. Well usually, it could be less or more depending on the person. I know she wants to go for make-up and stuff. Not sure how long that is. Anyways, I've already done my bit of college (and failed utterly). So my plan was to go with her and live in the area. I can write anywhere. |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 23:19:08 GMT -6
Still though, you should really find an answer before she goes to college. Remember college lasts 4 years man. Well usually, it could be less or more depending on the person. I know she wants to go for make-up and stuff. Not sure how long that is. Anyways, I've already done my bit of college (and failed utterly). So my plan was to go with her and live in the area. I can write anywhere. That's seems like a reasonable plan. Well, more than what I would do but reasonable. So long as she agrees but most people want to live in the dorms for the experience so it will be a hard time convincing her if she really wants to do it. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 23:28:57 GMT -6
I know she wants to go for make-up and stuff. Not sure how long that is. Anyways, I've already done my bit of college (and failed utterly). So my plan was to go with her and live in the area. I can write anywhere. That's seems like a reasonable plan. Well, more than what I would do but reasonable. So long as she agrees but most people want to live in the dorms for the experience so it will be a hard time convincing her if she really wants to do it. She could change her mind, who knows. I don't see how she'd disagree with me living in the area, even if we're not rooming together. At least then I don't have to do some long distance thing for 4 years. |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 7, 2014 23:32:20 GMT -6
That's seems like a reasonable plan. Well, more than what I would do but reasonable. So long as she agrees but most people want to live in the dorms for the experience so it will be a hard time convincing her if she really wants to do it. She could change her mind, who knows. I don't see how she'd disagree with me living in the area, even if we're not rooming together. At least then I don't have to do some long distance thing for 4 years. That's good. Alright, time for me to go to sleep. I have a final tomorrow and it's the middle of the night and I haven't really studied lol. Talk to you later. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 7, 2014 23:36:44 GMT -6
She could change her mind, who knows. I don't see how she'd disagree with me living in the area, even if we're not rooming together. At least then I don't have to do some long distance thing for 4 years. That's good. Alright, time for me to go to sleep. I have a final tomorrow and it's the middle of the night and I haven't really studied lol. Talk to you later. Good luck! |
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Post by Mr_Monster_Munch on May 8, 2014 5:26:58 GMT -6
No. Don't try and get more answers. Just leave her be. She says she wants some space, so ringing her everyday is only going to make her upset. If she wants to speak to you, she'll come and find you. This is like asking a girl what's wrong after she's given you the silent treatment. It only makes her respect you less if you keep asking her.
Imagine being a girl and having a boyfriend and you're unsure whether you want to be with him. You ask him to back off and give you some space, but he keeps ringing you every day. Is that going to make you like him more? No, it's going to make you like him less. Being sorry, miserable and desperate are not attractive traits in men. It's a HUGE turn-off to women.
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Post by Agemoi on May 8, 2014 7:59:10 GMT -6
thecrimsonMan, these are the reasons I've kinda pushed to stay single for a while. The fickle uncertainty of young life is utterly unnerving especially when college plans are involved  unless you're both 100% on the same page then its gonna turn into an overcomplicated mess. Just take everything in stride man. I hope for your sake she's just in a tough place right now, but I've seen these situations far too often turn into "i want to be single for college." Again, I sincerely hope thats not the case! But keep us updated as you have been dude.
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Post by RockyBanks on May 8, 2014 8:40:44 GMT -6
 I really should be working, buuuuuuuuuuut nope. My coworkers and I are about to go to lunch (in about an hour), and I don't think anyone's chosen a place. Dunno what I'm in the mood for. Anyone got any ideas? |
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Post by Sage6Paths on May 8, 2014 8:48:01 GMT -6
I really should be working, buuuuuuuuuuut nope. My coworkers and I are about to go to lunch (in about an hour), and I don't think anyone's chosen a place. Dunno what I'm in the mood for. Anyone got any ideas? Also the rest of the video is hilarious. |
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Post by wyokid on May 8, 2014 11:17:24 GMT -6
I really should be working, buuuuuuuuuuut nope. My coworkers and I are about to go to lunch (in about an hour), and I don't think anyone's chosen a place. Dunno what I'm in the mood for. Anyone got any ideas? Chili dogs. Can never go wrong with chili dogs. |
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Post by RockyBanks on May 8, 2014 11:27:39 GMT -6
I really should be working, buuuuuuuuuuut nope. My coworkers and I are about to go to lunch (in about an hour), and I don't think anyone's chosen a place. Dunno what I'm in the mood for. Anyone got any ideas? Chili dogs. Can never go wrong with chili dogs. Chili dogs are boss. Just got back from Ruby Tuesday. What are those freaking black croutons made out of, solidified crack? |
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Post by thecrimson on May 8, 2014 11:47:54 GMT -6
thecrimsonMan, these are the reasons I've kinda pushed to stay single for a while. The fickle uncertainty of young life is utterly unnerving especially when college plans are involved unless you're both 100% on the same page then its gonna turn into an overcomplicated mess. Just take everything in stride man. I hope for your sake she's just in a tough place right now, but I've seen these situations far too often turn into "i want to be single for college." Again, I sincerely hope thats not the case! But keep us updated as you have been dude. Well she's fine now. Turned out be a bunch of stress like I said last night. She was very lovey-dovey last night after she finally opened up about what's been bothering her. She wanted me to come over. Anyways, part 4 is up. I think I cut out parts where my webswinging was terrible lol. |
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Post by Agemoi on May 8, 2014 12:27:12 GMT -6
thecrimsonawesome dude, good to hear! And ill be sure to check this out tonight too. My local gamestop guy just prevented me from buying it hahaha 
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Post by wyokid on May 8, 2014 12:39:54 GMT -6
The action scenes are incredible. The music during the final fight with Darth Maul is my favorite Star Wars music ever. Agents of SHIELD I was thinking Skye was Jessica Drew, but with the information that Skye's parents were monsters (could be a metaphorical term so Spider-Woman isn't completely out of the question) and that Raina shares similar DNA I'm thinking she's either Abigail Brand or a Skrull. That or they're both Inhumans. Amen dude! John Williams is a killer composer. Duel of the fates makes that fight so much more epic. Man.. a friend of mine was thinking she was Jessica Drew too. Any particular reason why? I need to get caught up on the last 2 episodes  Jessica Drew's origin is that her parents were trying to create a serum and Jessica got sick due to exposure to uranium and to save her her parents put her in a hyperbolic chamber and injected her with radioactive spider blood. She woke up decades later with no memory of her past and was trained by HYDRA under the guidance of Taskmaster. As you can tell there's stuff that links up Skye in there. |
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Post by thecrimson on May 8, 2014 12:59:37 GMT -6
thecrimsonawesome dude, good to hear! And ill be sure to check this out tonight too. My local gamestop guy just prevented me from buying it hahaha How dare he! |
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Post by Agemoi on May 8, 2014 13:02:10 GMT -6
wyokidRIGHT! Man, i completely forgot. That would be pretty cool if that happened thecrimsonYeah i went in to renew my powerups card (eh) and he asked if i was thinking of getting anything. I told him about it and he just shook his head and told me why i shouldn't haha I might pick it up eventually when its super cheap, which shouldn't take long considering the amount of crap people are giving the game. I wanna give it a shot because i love spiderman, but Activision just keeps getting dev's balls in a vice to force them to release a half-assed product. LE SIGH I SAY!
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Post by thecrimson on May 8, 2014 13:11:44 GMT -6
wyokidRIGHT! Man, i completely forgot. That would be pretty cool if that happened thecrimsonYeah i went in to renew my powerups card (eh) and he asked if i was thinking of getting anything. I told him about it and he just shook his head and told me why i shouldn't haha I might pick it up eventually when its super cheap, which shouldn't take long considering the amount of crap people are giving the game. I wanna give it a shot because i love spiderman, but Activision just keeps getting dev's balls in a vice to force them to release a half-assed product. LE SIGH I SAY! Redbox. Go with Redbox lol. You can beat the game in 1 or 2 days and it would only cost, like, $2-4. |
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Post by wyokid on May 8, 2014 13:14:10 GMT -6
wyokidRIGHT! Man, i completely forgot. That would be pretty cool if that happened thecrimsonYeah i went in to renew my powerups card (eh) and he asked if i was thinking of getting anything. I told him about it and he just shook his head and told me why i shouldn't haha I might pick it up eventually when its super cheap, which shouldn't take long considering the amount of crap people are giving the game. I wanna give it a shot because i love spiderman, but Activision just keeps getting dev's balls in a vice to force them to release a half-assed product. LE SIGH I SAY! I'd much prefer Abigail Brand. Agents of SWORD sounds like so much fun. |
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Post by Stannis Baratheon on May 8, 2014 13:24:37 GMT -6
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Post by Agemoi on May 8, 2014 14:20:59 GMT -6
thecrimsonYou know.. I have one 2 minutes away from me and I NEVER USE IT! I don't know why! Im only 24 but red box still feels like such a foreign idea. But you know what? SCREW IT! Im checkin it out sunday night wyokidhaha agents of SWORD! too bad ABC would never give out a budget to make that work!
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unless you're both 100% on the same page then its gonna turn into an overcomplicated mess. Just take everything in stride man. I hope for your sake she's just in a tough place right now, but I've seen these situations far too often turn into "i want to be single for college." Again, I sincerely hope thats not the case! But keep us updated as you have been dude.
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